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How to Overcome Doubters and Dream Killers

Let’s face it, we all have a dream. Whether it’s to write a book, start a business, or travel the world, we all have something we’ve been yearning to do. But, sometimes, the road to achieving our dreams is filled with doubters and dream killers.

You know who I’m talking about – those people who can’t help but question your plans, who try to talk you out of your dreams, who seem to pour cold water on your burning passion. They’re the ones who can’t understand your vision, and sometimes, they are the ones who have given up on their own dreams.

But here’s the thing. You can’t let them stop you. They may be loud, they may be persistent, but they don’t have the power to kill your dreams unless you let them. So, how do you overcome these doubters and dream killers? Here are some valuable lessons I’ve learned from some of the most influential thinkers and creators I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with.

1. Repeat Your Mantras

Tom Bilyeu shared the power of repetition. Having phrases and mantras that you can repeat to yourself can be an effective way to drown out negative self-talk and the voices of the doubters. It doesn’t matter if these mantras are “I can learn anything I set my mind to” or “I am stronger than I think.” What matters is that you repeat them until they become your default system. This is how you embed these empowering beliefs into your mindset.

2. Show Up with Kind Candor

Gary Vaynerchuk emphasized the importance of emotional intelligence and candor in life and business. Having the courage to be honest and straightforward with others, especially when dealing with criticism or negativity, is essential. But remember, it doesn’t mean you have to be rude or harsh. It’s about delivering your message in a kind and empathetic way.

3. Know Whose Opinions Matter

Brené Brown offered a brilliant strategy to deal with criticism. Write down the names of the people whose opinions really matter to you. These are the people who love you because of your vulnerability and imperfections, not despite them. Keep this list close and remind yourself that these are the opinions that matter. Everyone else? They’re just noise.

4. Make Something Every Day

Elle Luna promoted the significance of creating every day. Whether you’re a writer, an artist, or an entrepreneur, making something every day allows you to see the world in a new way. It gives you a chance to explore your interests, learn new things, and express your creativity.

So, next time you find yourself facing the doubters and dream killers, remember these lessons. Don’t let anyone talk you out of your dreams. Keep repeating your mantras, show up with kind candor, know whose opinions matter, and make something every day. Your dreams are yours to chase, and they are worth fighting for.

Until Next Time!

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