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Signs Perfectionism is Holding You Back

There’s a subtle yet pervasive force that often goes unnoticed, yet it significantly shapes our work. It’s the nagging feeling that no matter how much effort we put in, our work is never quite good enough.

This isn’t a conscious chase for flawlessness, but rather a relentless sense of dissatisfaction that keeps us trapped in a cycle of endless tweaking. It’s that feeling that our work could always be better, leading us to labor over it far longer than perhaps necessary.

This mindset, while seemingly benign, can actually hinder our growth and creativity. Learning how to let go can be the key to unlocking our true creative potential.

The Subtle Grip of Perfectionism

This form of perfectionism is sneaky. It doesn’t announce itself with grand declarations of achieving the impossible. Instead, it’s a quiet voice in the back of your head, a persistent whisper that what you’ve created isn’t quite there yet. It’s an endless pursuit of a moving target, one that shifts with every attempt to reach it.

Signs You’re Caught in the Perfection Loop

  • The Unending Project: Your work never feels complete, always just one tweak away from being ‘right’.
  • The Trap of Comparison: You find yourself constantly measuring your work against others, feeling it falls short.
  • Chronic Procrastination: The fear of not meeting your own standards leads to avoiding or delaying tasks.
  • Self-Worth Tied to Work: Your identity becomes intertwined with the quality of your work, making it hard to accept anything less than your best.
  • Collaborative Tensions: Your drive for constant improvement can create friction
    in team projects.
  • Overthinking Choices: Indecision takes hold as you weigh every option to ensure the best outcome.
  • Hesitation to Share: You’re reluctant to show your work, fearing it doesn’t meet your high standards.
  • Persistent Dissatisfaction: Despite achievements, you often feel your work is inadequate.
  • Stress and Anxiety: The constant pursuit of an elusive ‘better’ can take a mental toll.

 

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Strategies for Moving Forward

To break free from this cycle, it’s essential to shift your focus from what your work isn’t to what it is – a reflection of your unique perspective and skills.

  1. Prioritize Communication: Share your work in progress. Embrace collaboration and feedback as tools for growth, not criticism. By sharing your work as you go, it will help you focus on the areas that really do need improvement, while letting the others go. You don’t need to overwork a problem that doesn’t exist.
  2. Build Trust Through Feedback: Use feedback to build relationships, not as a measure of your worth. If you only see the flaws in your work, you tend to never hear the positive feedback. We tend to dismiss it instantly. Remember, constructive criticism is a part of growth, but positive feedback often comes from the heart. You need to hear both. Let it in and realize that the only person that sees those flaws is you.
  3. Reframe Failure: Finishing work more quickly than you feel ready risks failure. But if it’s good enough, maybe it’s time to let it go. Remember, no one project or task is as important as a body of work. View setbacks as learning opportunities and a necessary part of the evolution process.
  4. Assess the Necessary Effort: Recognize when a task requires your best effort and when ‘good enough’ is sufficient. Sometimes done is better than unfinished.
  5. Embrace Uncertainty: Accept that not everything can be predicted or controlled. Focus on doing your best under the given circumstances.

The Beauty in Imperfection

There’s a unique charm in the imperfect – it’s authentic, relatable, and deeply human. In the creative world, we know the works that resonate most often bear the authentic marks of their creator. These ‘imperfections’ are what make your work distinctive and engaging. Imperfect things can be perfect as they are.

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