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It Ain’t All About You

Whenever us creative types get together, or–come to think of it–even when we’re alone, it’s usually all about “me”, “my”, or “we” or “I”. What is MY next gig, what am I doing to improve MY portfolio, MY solo exhibition, MY client list, MY ad campaign, MY blog, MY bank account, gear locker, self-promo mailer, vision… You get the point. Don’t deny it.

As a result, we can be overly paranoid, competitive, frustrated, cocky, going for broke, indulgent, critical, self-absorbed, self-loathing, self aggrandizing and overly analytical. We spend a lot of time living in our own heads.

But the truth is, we’re way better creatives when we’re better people. Better to ourselves, better to others, better to the world.

I just bumped into a close friend on the way back from my morning coffee. He shook my tree a little bit and told me a quick story in realizing this about himself. The story ended with his re-framing his self-focus into a simple plan to motivate a change. At the wrap up of each day he’s asking himself “what are 3 things I did to make somebody else’s life better today?”

I like that. Perhaps you should too.

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It Ain’t All About You

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  1. nodderwaak says:
    March 1, 2011 at 12:13 pm

    praise the lord.

  2. Andy says:
    March 1, 2011 at 12:09 pm

    I will take this to heart…

    Thanks for sharing!

  3. Kim says:
    March 1, 2011 at 12:02 pm

    I’d like to think I could come up with an answer for that every day but if I was totally honest with myself, I think a lot of days go by that I couldn’t. Great reminder of something to work toward.

  4. Capturesque says:
    March 1, 2011 at 11:58 am

    Excellent point, I try do do this in life and not with just my photography. It’s a good practice, if you’re not making someone else’s life better your isn’t.

  5. Elis W. Alves says:
    March 1, 2011 at 11:57 am

    So true! It’s too easy to get entangled in our own selves, affairs and our sense of greatness and forget there’s a whole world around us and we’re all somehow connected. Thanks for the reminder, Chase! :c) Great post!

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